Neither my husband nor I have an iota of fashion sense, but we’re both addicted to Project Runway. Last night’s episode, “What’s the Skinny,” challenged the designers to re-style the favorite but now-too-big outfits of 12 women, all of whom have lost a significant amount of weight.
Each woman introduced herself along with the amount of weight she’d lost, which ranged from 30-something to 160 pounds. The designers ooh’ed and ahh’ed, particularly at the women who had lost the most amount of weight. It was as if the dozen had singularly solved the crisis in the Middle East or cured cancer.
It seems each new season of Project Runway includes the now obligatory challenge to design for “average”-sized or even plus-sized women. In each scenario and in each season, most, if not all, the designers look like they’re going to pee their pants when the challenge is announced.
Despite that the designs for challenges involving non-model-sized women are, for the most part, abysmal, I really appreciate that the show does take an effort to include size diversity, even if it is just a token episode each season.
But what bothered me about last night’s episode is that the premise wasn’t about designing for the “everyday woman.” It was presented much more as a congratulatory gift to weight-loss success stories, who, by virtue of newly-svelte figures, “deserve” to now be rewarded with a new look.
Once again, the act of weight-loss is celebrated and heralded as a feat to be admired, envied and imitated.
Several weeks ago, I was trapped in a Coach limo with four women all engaged in diet and self-deprecating talk. Because I was there in a professional capacity, I didn’t feel comfortable trying to convince them otherwise.
But after finding it impossible to ignore the women, I interjected with a few feeble attempts before revealing that I have maintained a weight loss of more than 100 pounds for nearly five years without dieting, killing myself at a gym and/or self-restriction of any kind, and tried to talk to them about Health at Every Size.
It got their attention, though they missed my point. One woman actually tried to high-five me, as if I’d done something monumental or noteworthy. She appeared genuinely puzzled when I didn’t return her enthusiasm and instead, just shrugged.
I’ve overcome a difficult childhood and championed against both depression and an eating disorder. Despite struggling day-to-day with ADD, I have succeeded in earning my bachelor degree while both working and attending school full-time. I am a former volunteer emergency medical technician and plan to resume my volunteerism after graduate school. I have a professional and accomplished career. My husband and I own our own home and we contribute both our time and money to various charity organizations.
There are many achievements in my life I am proud of. Weight-loss ranks low on the list of them.
This isn’t to say that the women featured in the Project Runway challenge aren’t deserving of the make-over they received. For all I know, they’re absolute saints. I truly hope they found the experience to be an empowering and enjoyable one.
But instead of celebrating women for losing weight, let’s celebrate them for what really matters. And what really matters can’t be found on any digital scale.