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Fired for anorexia? Rachael Ray Show employee files suit

8th July 2008

Fired for anorexia? Rachael Ray Show employee files suit

A few months ago, I attended an eating disorders vigil hosted by a local psychologist during National Eating Disorders Awareness Month. The psychologist expected more than 100 people to attend the event and had contracted with a local middle school to use its parking lot. At the last minute and the school rescheduled a popular sporting event, which would require all of its parking spaces. So, a day before the event, the psychologist rushed to arrange parking and asked a nearby church for use of its lot. She explained the nature of the event and the circumstances surrounding the last minute request to the church administrator and asked for permission to use its lot for overflow parking. The administrator paused, before replying that he/she didn’t think the Bible would condone such an event and declined the request.

Of all the eating disorders, anorexia often elicits the most amount of sympathy from the general public. Part of this is because those with anorexia are, by DSM definition, thin, thus granting them membership in a social status that is highly valorized, glamorized and validated by culture at large, regardless of the emotional and physical toll the disorder demands of its victims. A lesser-discussed part of Anorexia-sympathy is due to what I call the “Maiden in Distress” factor; as the stereotype goes, people with anorexia are frail and emaciated, young, white and female. The popular perception is that these poor, young girls are weak both physically and emotionally and are in need of saving both from themselves and a culture that drives them to such depths of insanity. It’s not dissimilar to the patronizing theories on Victorian female hysteria of the nineteenth century. Despite the sympathy plied towards anorexia and those with the disorder, there still exists a shroud of stigma attached to it and eating disorders in general. A 2005 study found that nationwide surveys of public opinions taken in 1998 and again in 2003 confirmed that people with eating disorders are often viewed negatively. Those with an eating disorder are perceived as “creating” their own self-inflicted disease; people wonder why won’t people with an eating disorder just *stop* the behaviors?; or worse of all, some people don’t even believe the disorder to even be a disorder (it’s just a phase, it’s a “lifestyle” choice, better to be thin –whatever the cost — than fat).

I bring all of this up to pave the way for discussion of Aaron Ferguson, a former accountant for Racheal Ray’s TV cooking show, who recently filed a lawsuit against CBS and three employees of the show (none of which include Ray) alleging that his supervisor repeatedly exhibited “hostile behavior” and made “vile,” discriminatory and hurtful comments. Ferguson said he repeatedly complained about his supervisor’s use of discriminatory language — in his presence — regarding anorexia and people with anorexia but that his/her superiors did nothing to resolve the situation. After he complained about his treatment, Ferguson says he was fired last year. Read the full story here.

I don’t want to judge or even cast aspersion on CBS or its representatives before an official verdict is rendered, but I completely empathize with Ferguson because I, too, have been there. I’ve written before on my own workplace battles during my eating disorder at the company I had worked at for 6 years and felt personally and professionally vested in. My manager there made my work environment so hostile and toxic it severely affected my mental health and impeded my recovery efforts. I was eventually fired on some trumped up charge — a charge so flimsy the company didn’t bother to fight my bid for unemployment benefits (in Ohio, you cannot receive unemployment benefits if you violate a company rule or practice). I was not the only employee the company discriminated against for taking medical leave and so I offered to make a few phone calls on behalf of a fellow employee. At my prompting, the company was investigated by the U.S. Department of Labor for violations of the Federal Medical Leave Act and was forced to comply with the law, grant medical leaves and end its discriminatory practices. It was too late for me, but I felt vindicated all the same.

Cases of eating disorders discrimination are rare, in part as my case shows, it’s quite difficult to prove the discrimination stemmed from the eating disorder. Those with an eating disorder are also often so invested in their disorder or in recovery efforts, they have neither the time nor the energy to bring or sustain a discrimination case. But such cases are uncommon more so because while up to 10 million females and 1 million males struggle with anorexia and/or bulimia, this number still forms only a relatively small fraction of the population, with many of those sufferers between the ages of 12 - 25. Binge eating disorder, however, is experienced by millions more - it’s estimated to eclipse both anorexia and bulimia combined — and because of the nature of the disorder, many of its sufferers are overweight or obese. It’s well-known that fat people regularly face discrimination in hiring, employment, housing, public spaces and other areas due to their weight, even when their weight is due to a psychological eating disorder. Because those with BED are subject to the same discrimination all fat people face, it makes BED the most widespread of all eating disorders discrimination, even if the discrimination stems from fatphobia and not necessarily the eating disorder itself.

Have you ever faced discrimination in the workplace or elsewhere for your eating disorder? Share your experiences below.

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  1. 1 On July 8th, 2008, ssoNo Gravatar said:

    you know, about a decade ago when i was set to start college, i called the school i would be attending and inquired about on-campus eating disorders services. they told me if i am anorexic (which i was/am), i had to be a certain weight-for-height in order to start school. i was 5′3″ and the school told me i had to weigh 94 lbs. i can bet there are non-anorexic women who at 18 years old would be that height and weight, but apparently that is okay. i always wondered if it was actually legal to refuse to let me come to school based on weight. i realize they don’t want the liability of me having serious health issues on campus, but would they be allowed to keep someone with a different illness out, just based on their illness? (i was already admitted and was about to come for freshman orientation they told me this.) i never did go to that school - i went to one closer to home the following year. that school had an eating disorders center on campus, but they refused to treat me because i was “too sick.” i could stay on campus, no one had a problem with that, but i was too sick to be treated. nice.

  2. 2 On July 8th, 2008, CarrieNo Gravatar said:

    I never really got the “poor you” response when I was deeply anorexic. I got the “why don’t you just eat” response, and even more curious, I got the “please give me diet tips” and “I want to be like you” response. I didn’t feel pitied–I felt envied. Which for a person who always believe she was at the bottom of the proverbial food chain, was a pretty powerful thing.

    I’ve never experienced any specific ED-related discrimination. All of my employers have been remarkably sympathetic to all of my mental health needs. My hardest thing now is dealing with the diet mentality that is rampant in female office talk. I feel like an outsider, and it’s hard. Yes, I know you can change the subject, etc, but “blah blah blah Weight Watchers Points scale calories blah blah blah” followed by “So, how ’bout them Yankees?” isn’t quite as effective.

  3. 3 On July 8th, 2008, CarrieNo Gravatar said:

    SSO,

    Some of these reasons colleges do this are for liability reasons. Another reason is that they don’t want you to be a threat to yourself by coming to school ill. If you take a medical leave for any reason, you typically need to be cleared by a physician to come back. I was essentially kicked out of college because my weight was so low, and it was probably the best thing that could have happened. Yeah, they’re watching their own butts, but there is also a sense of caring in a lot of these people.

  4. 4 On July 8th, 2008, RachelNo Gravatar said:
    SSO - Your case sounds a lot like that of Brittany Bethel, only her college also placed her on their persona non grata list, which also includes students deemed dangerous to others. I understand Carrie’s point about the concern involved in the school’s decision, but for me, my college courses were the one stable element throughout my disorder and sometimes, was the only thing that kept me hanging on. If my school would have kicked me out for my disorder, it would have meant a loss of the one support structure I had throughout that time.
  5. 5 On July 8th, 2008, ssoNo Gravatar said:

    the funny thing is, i was 69 lbs when i was supposed to start at the first school, and they didn’t even let me on campus. the second school, i was 60 lbs and they were perfectly happy to let me live on campus and attend classes, they just didn’t want to treat me at their ED center. i even went to the campus health clinic once with a burn on my hand, and nobody made a single remark about my weight. they probably SHOULD have said something, or even sent me home, but at the time i was glad they didn’t. i wound up taking the next semester off for inpatient treatment anyway, and then returned and finished college in fairly decent shape.

  6. 6 On July 8th, 2008, CatgalNo Gravatar said:

    I would like to know why the Bible would not condone people supporting each other through tough times. Does anyone have any idea why that church said no? This is baffling to me.

  7. 7 On July 8th, 2008, mustelidNo Gravatar said:

    I got kicked out of my college’s dorms for an ED-inspired suicide attempt. The official reasoning being, I ‘needed to have the love and support of family in this difficult time’. Telling the guy my ‘loving, supportive family’ had kicked me out too made no difference. They did let me back in the dorms for the following semester; it seems the words ‘homeless shelter’ and ‘local newspaper might take an interest’ re: the whole mess had been whispered into the right ears.

  8. 8 On July 8th, 2008, CynNo Gravatar said:

    @ Catgal - Many, many churches don’t condone “vigils” or other get-togethers which involve people supporting each other through tough times. If you’re not begging the big bearded man in the sky to solve all your problems for you, you’re just wasting your time. Seriously, a lot of religious people conflate human intervention with a lack of faith. Big ol’ sky-daddy can take care of it all, don’t bother your pretty little head about anything.

  9. 9 On July 8th, 2008, CatgalNo Gravatar said:

    As far as I am concerned, that’s a heap of Cr@p! It’s not like you asked them if you could worship satin in the parking lot!

  10. 10 On July 8th, 2008, CatgalNo Gravatar said:

    ^^^ Duh! Satan, not satin…

  11. 11 On July 8th, 2008, mrs.millurNo Gravatar said:

    I know its not the question you’re asking, but I’m just agog at the Church Administrator. The bible doesn’t condone community gatherings and mutual support?!? wtf?!?

    Grow a pair. “I’m sorry, but we can’t offer free parking for outside groups or everyone would be asking”. It’s a fair answer. Don’t blame the bible. ~fume~

  12. 12 On July 8th, 2008, littlemNo Gravatar said:

    A lesser-discussed part of Anorexia-sympathy is due to what I call the “Maiden in Distress” factor; as the stereotype goes, people with anorexia are frail and emaciated, young, white and female. The popular perception is that these poor, young girls are weak both physically and emotionally and are in need of saving both from themselves and a culture that drives them to such depths of insanity.

    Nailed this. NAILED IT. I think it bears repeating ad nauseam, because it’s almost NEVER discussed.

    And I think, if I might be so bold, the reverse might be contributing to Mr. Ferguson’s problems. He’s a man. (And, more stereotypically, gay men are thought to be more prone to anorexia than straight men, so there might have been even a little homophobia on top of it.) According to a lot of women, he’s not supposed to have problems. And definitely not THAT particular problem.

  13. 13 On July 9th, 2008, RachelNo Gravatar said:
    Littlem: A study was just released the other week discussing the higher degrees of eating disorders amongst gay men than straight men, so I think your suggestion is a very astute one.
  14. 14 On July 9th, 2008, devilNo Gravatar said:

    I was a church treasurer a while back. That administrator not only misinterpreted the Bible, but she missed out on an opportunity to make some money for the church by renting out the parking lot. Really, woman, get some business sense! (A church is a business too, I don’t care what anyone says.)

    As long as the event doesn’t TRULY contradict the Bible, why not provide a service for a reasonable fee? My last church had a lovely multi-purpose room with a full kitchen attached and nice, big restrooms. We’d rent it out for private parties, as long as they did not serve alcohol.

  15. 15 On July 9th, 2008, Moonlight0806No Gravatar said:

    I was an RA at my college, a girl on my floor had just graduated out of inpatient at a very good local ED treatment clinic. But our college would not give her an exemption from eating in the cafeteria (she was a freshman and freshman are required to have meal plans) even though she had letters from her Team of doctors that said that it would be detrimental to her recovery to be subjected to the cafeteria environment. The school made her meet with their nutritionist even though she already had a highly qualified one on her ongoing treatment team. The schools nutritionist did not have the training or experience to deal with her issues and only made things worse. The resident moved out after one semester into her own off campus apartment. She missed out on a lot of campus activities and fellow student support because she didn’t live on campus. I think it was handled very poorly on the schools part. It was a case of them (the housing department) thinking they knew better than actual professionals who specialize in ed treatment. I even went in to speak with my higher ups about the situation and they always managed to be too busy to talk for more than a few seconds.

    This was the same year that the nutritionists decided to put the caloric and fat information directly in front of the food in the cafeteria where you could not avoid it. The had to stop doing that because most people stopped eating even if they hadn’t previously had issues. They moved the info to one wall where you could look at it if you wanted.

  16. 16 On July 10th, 2008, CordeliaNo Gravatar said:

    This was posted at just the right time for me… this tuesday both me and another girl got fired from our company. Our Boss came in while the other girl was at lunch, told us he was “Shutting the place down”, that it was “bleeding money”(even though our profits had been way up since I first started) and causing him too much stress in his life.

    He said that he would give us great references and asked us how we wanted our checks, we were made to clean up our stuff and leave the premises that moment. Me and the other girl were in a ton of shock as we had never gotten a single warning or notice of this, and all we could think of was how inappropriate it was for him to have dropped this news when the other girl wasn’t there as well, and how bad it would be for her to have to come back and hear it alone. The other girl called her and let her know what was going on and she seemed very shocked, then when we were carrying our stuff out to our cars she walked up .. and I talked to her and she still seemed very shocked.

    I however found out afterwards that she did NOT get fired,being that she was staying on there the company wasn’t closing, and that she knew about it all. Now Me and the other girl had never gotten written up, and were doing well with our jobs and I was going above and beyond my original duties taking over for the manager that he had fired previously (that was for valid reasons she was stealing from the company) plus handling my stuff, it came as a huge shock that he got rid of us like that.

    It just seems so … I don’t know .. weird because both T and I the ones who got fired are overweight .. Fat in fact and T has numerous tattoos and piercings. C, the one who was kept, on the other hand is skinny, gorgeous, very flirtatious, and a partier. Both T and I are wondering if that is why she was kept, we had the seniority both of us had been with the company for about 6 months, C had just started a month ago.

    I can’t help but feel that there is something seriously wrong with all this… but I am still kind of in shock from it all… I loved my job, looked forward to going to work, and enjoyed the people I worked with, and was never expecting this.

  17. 17 On August 2nd, 2008, LyndseyNo Gravatar said:

    I am in a situation right now where my job is in jeopardy if i do not go into long term treatment for my eating disorder. my hr director said that i need to do whatever it takes to get into long term treatment, regardless of the costs (my insurance will not even pay for, let alone authorize inpatient eating disorder treatment). yeah, thanks lady, i make less than 25K a year, where the heck am i going to come up with 50K for treatment? I want to go, i’ve been wanting to do long term treatment for years, but the i have no way of taking care of the costs. the thing that bothers me, is she knew before she even met with me, that i was planning to go back into the hospital, and rather than saying yay, thats great, she’s like thats not going to help, you need to do long term or you’re fired. can i even be fired for that? especially if i am in outpatient treatment and seeking inpatient treatment, and am eligible for leave by the FMLA? I just have no idea what to do.

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